Make the sibling chapter early.
Older children may have a short window of curiosity and attention. Once the baby is settled, invite a few safe interactions before asking the sibling to wait through adult or newborn-only photographs.



Use positions adults can control.
A parent holding the newborn beside the sibling, everyone on a bed, or a child approaching while an adult supports the baby keeps the interaction safe. Do not depend on a young child holding or balancing a newborn independently.
Give the older child a separate photograph.
The session should not make the sibling feel replaced by the new subject. A short portrait or activity with one parent recognizes that the family story still includes their individual life.
Accept mixed feelings.
Curiosity, distance, pride, boredom, and frustration can all be real. A complete story does not need to convert every emotion into a smile or ask the child to repeat a gesture they have finished.

