Engagement sessions without awkward posing — see the work

LGBTQ+ wedding photographer

An LGBTQ+ wedding photographer without assumptions about what a wedding should be.

A candid LGBTQ+ wedding at Straus Home Ranch in West Marin
Newlyweds together beside a Chinatown mural during a small San Francisco wedding
Jamie and Anthony together inside the curved architecture of the Marin County Civic Center

We photograph people, relationships, families, and chosen families as they are. Planning language, portrait direction, traditions, and the shape of coverage should fit the couple rather than forcing everyone into inherited roles.

No awkward posing. No script for how the day should feel. We make the plan and solve the photography so you can stay with the people who make you forget about the camera.

Tell us what you are planning

Choose where to begin

Go straight to the part of the work that answers the question.

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Wedding photography

Complete coverage with real moments at the center and direction when it helps.

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Wedding stories

Full days, not highlight fragments—organized by place, feeling, and kind of celebration.

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Planning guides

Useful decisions about timelines, light, family, film, weather, and photographs.

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Venue field guides

First-hand notes organized by venue, landscape, and region.

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Inclusive is an ordinary working practice.

Names, pronouns, family structures, clothing, and traditions are learned from the people involved. Nobody should need to teach us why their wedding is valid before we can photograph it well.

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Portraits should feel like the people in them.

Direction is about light, connection, movement, and composition—not assigning one person a gendered role or reproducing poses that do not fit.

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Chosen family belongs in the story.

The relationships around a couple often carry the deepest history. We pay attention beyond the formal family list while still helping make the photographs people need.

See the work in context

Complete stories from this place and approach.

A Santa Cruz Museum of Natural History wedding by the coast
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Seabright · Santa Cruz

A Santa Cruz Museum of Natural History wedding by the coast

A Muir Woods and Muir Beach elopement on film
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Muir Woods and the Marin coast

A Muir Woods and Muir Beach elopement on film

Newlyweds walking beneath the redwoods after a San Francisco City Hall ceremony
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San Francisco and Marin County

A San Francisco City Hall and Muir Woods elopement

Newlyweds together between the redwoods at The Brambles in Philo
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Philo, Mendocino County

A redwood wedding at The Brambles in Philo

What local experience changes

Inclusive photography is ordinary competence, not a seasonal statement.

Names, pronouns, clothing, family structure, traditions, visibility, privacy, and the language used for portraits are learned from the people involved. Nobody should need to educate a photographer before being treated accurately.

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Direction does not need gendered roles.

We work with light, movement, connection, clothing, height, and how people actually relate. There is no need to assign one person a borrowed ‘bride’ or ‘groom’ pose to make a portrait legible.

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Chosen family belongs in the formal and candid record.

The family list can include biological family, chosen family, separate combinations, and relationships that need care. Documentary attention then follows the people who carry the history beyond the list.

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Visibility and privacy are individual choices.

Some couples want their photographs shared widely; others need restrictions for work, family, safety, or simple preference. We discuss the real boundary instead of treating either choice as an explanation owed.

Questions couples ask

Enough context to make the next decision.

Have you photographed LGBTQ weddings and families before?

Yes. The linked stories show complete celebrations rather than a claim supported by one portrait. Our working process is inclusive across inquiries, questionnaires, direction, family planning, editing, and delivery.

How do you handle difficult family dynamics?

We learn the relationships privately, order formal groups to reduce friction, use the correct names and roles, and avoid turning personal context into a public explanation on the wedding day.

Can we limit how photographs are shared?

Yes. Tell us the specific privacy need so the agreement, gallery, vendor sharing, and publication plan can reflect it clearly. Formal NDAs are available for situations that require them.